A new way to truly
connect
with your partner
Stop fighting over what you can’t say. Share your deepest needs in a safe space, be heard without judgment, and rebuild the intimacy you’ve lost.
✨Join hundreds of couples rebuilding their connection.
Stop Guessing What Your Partner needs
Somewhere the connection got lost… Vela helps couples articulate needs, deepen understanding, and reconnect – one entry at a time.
You’ve drifted apart
After years together, the spark is fading. You love each other, but something’s missing. Conversations that once felt easy now feel risky.
Talking makes it worse
Every time you try to share what you need, it becomes an argument. Your partner gets defensive. Neither of you feels heard.
Needs pile up
Resentment builds silently. You stop asking for what you need. You don’t even know if your partner cares anymore.
How Vela Works
Create your Relationship Blueprint – a shared space for the conversations you need to have but keep avoiding
Share Your Blueprint
Express your needs in a structured, thoughtful way. No pressure to perform. No defensive arguments.
Partner Processes
They read and reflect at their own pace, and are given time and space to understand, not react.
Discuss & Connect
When ready, you discuss together with clarity. Arguments become conversations. Vulnerability becomes connection.
Most apps focus on dating. We focus on depth.
Written articulation matters
Unlike shallow quizzes or games, writing forces clarity. Research shows written reflection creates 3x more insight than conversation alone.
- “Finally, a way to express what I couldn’t say out loud.”
It’s both of you, together
This isn’t a therapy marketplace or one-sided journaling. Vela is a shared space where both partners actively participate and grow.
- “We’re not just tracking – we’re actually connecting.”
Progress feels real
See your needs met, track patterns over time, celebrate breakthroughs. Visual progress keeps you motivated and aligned.
- “Seeing our growth mapped out changed everything.”
It stays intimate
Completely private between you and your partner. No social feeds, no community pressure – just the two of you, doing the work.
- “It’s just us. No audience, no performance.”
85%
of couples struggle with communication
3X
more insight from written reflection
70%
of couples feel more quality time is needed
Discover What Your Blueprint Reveals
See the patterns you’ve been missing, understand what matters most, and get personalized guidance to strengthen your connection.
Spot Your Strengths
See where you naturally align. We highlight the topics where you’re already on the same page, so you can build on what’s working.
Notice What Repeats
When the same feelings come up across multiple entries, we help you recognize the pattern. Understanding “why” makes it easier to address “what.”
Know What to Discuss Next
Based on your recent entries and chats, get suggestions for meaningful conversations that move your relationship forward.
Find Common Ground
Discover where your needs overlap and where they differ. Sometimes the gap isn’t as wide as it feels—we show you the bridge.
Get Actionable Next Steps
Small habits make big differences. We suggest practical ways to address recurring needs, from weekly check-ins to new routines.
Understand the Emotional Landscape
Track how emotions evolve across entries and discussions. When frustration shifts to understanding, you’ll see the progress clearly.
Your Relationship, Understood.
The more you share, the clearer the picture becomes. Vela helps you see patterns, celebrate progress, and focus on what matters most—without judgment, just insight.
Ready to Understand Your Partner Again?
Create your Relationship Blueprint and start having the conversations that matter.
Get Early Access
Join our waitlist and be the first to try Vela when we launch. Early access + special founder pricing for you.